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We have always taken the girls on holiday. It was one of our top things that we looked forward to with becoming parents. We were warned, we were almost put off from even trying it, but we have never avoided anything with our girls and we’ve achieved so much because of it. We have battled and fought and nearly given up but we’ve persevered and we are seeing results! This is our 4th holiday abroad and on day 5 we have not had one major meltdown yet! I don’t want to assume the next 4 won’t bring one but we must celebrate these achievements when they come. We’ve had moments, we have unregulation and we’ve have sensory overload but we have co-regulated and calmed and she has even been regulating herself by taking 5 in the shade with some colouring, something that we have always had to tell her to do before now. She has verbalised several times that she is missing our home and then followed this up with “but I know we are going back to it and I know everything is ok and it is ok for me to missing home, that’s ok isn’t it mummy?” To day we’re having a wonderful time would not cover it! #happyholidays #parkinsonfamilyholiday2019 #ikosaria #ikosresorts #ukadoptioncommunity #anxiety #ptsd #attachmentdisorder #attachment #therapeuticparenting #trauma
It's finally summer in Colorado, so make sure to spend lots of time outside with your little one! "The stimuli which nature provides is unparalleled. Even the youngest infant becomes fascinated by listening to birds, watching the movements of flies, butterflies, shadows and leaves. Air circulation, temperature change, the playfulness of sunlight and shadow are strong stimuli to the senses.” – Magda Gerber Full article in my bio 👶🏼👣
Finish last week project before getting sick, but now we’re going back to business again. . . . #cosplay #props #propmaking #mp5 #3dprinting #3dprinter #petg #filamento3d #filament #puertorico #attachment #handguard #handguards
Our next Mama & Baba Massage courses start: Wed 17th July 💗 Thurs 18th July 💗 Based in Gillitts, our Mama & Baba Massage classes are for babies to start as young as 3 weeks up to 10 weeks... Ask someone to drop you if you've had a CS - Grannies are welcome to join! 😉 A beautiful gentle course held weekly for 5 weeks to help new mums with understanding their newborn's behavior, hunger and tired cues, feeding issues, bonding, colic, sleep patterns, newborn brain development, body awareness, muscle tone and of course, too much of CHATTING, TEA & TREATS! 😍 Only R750 for the 5 week course. NO REGISTRATION FEE 🌟 Whatsapp Sam on 076 329 0217 to book #postnataldoulas #infantmassageinstructors #survivingnewbornphase #4thtrimester #babyclasses #bubclubsa #infantmassage #bonding #babymassage #connection #attachment #understandingbaby #contentedbaby #happybaba #happymama
We had an awesome conversation tonight on our podcast. Attachment and what it can include, how it can negatively affect your life. Look us up on Blogtalk and join the talk. @wandafulhomedesigns #podcast #blogtalkradio #attachment #coping #selflove #detachment
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What if our first response in the meeting of another is our most authentic connection? Energy responds to energy in the now, so that first connection is based primarily on that understanding, and outside expectation and attachment. Say I meet you and we form a connection. I would argue that the initial 'seeing' is the closest to the real you I can know. What I then experience from you is the multitude of ways you dress that essence in the conformity of what you align yourself to, and then I would be seeing those definitions through my own perspection. Therefore when I 'get to know' or you show 'your true colours' it is the personality self I am addressing. Your essence has become obscured by my attachment, expections, and experience of you. Remember the truth of someone, the love of someone, is under layers of stories that have become more real that the original connection you found. Return to energy, return to love unconditional 💚 #aoholistics #first #response #conscious #reading #engery #connection #understanding #expectation #attachment #realyou #trueself #love
This was meant for my personal page but as it made its way here, I felt compelled to share. As I've slipped comfortably into the adult years and found myself questioning the status quo, this realization dawned on me. The more time I spend with my children, and working with families who feel disconnected, the more truth I see in this statement. Human beings need connection! #homeschoolingmom #homeschoolmom #attachment #connection #attachmentparenting #consciousliving #wisdomcoach #childrenslifecoach #thechildrenswisdominstitute
Attachment is formed very early on in life. This graphic shows the different styles we gravitate towards, depending on the behavior and responses of our caregivers. ⁣ ⁣ Why does this matter? 🤔⁣ Attachment lays the foundation for literally every relationship we have in our lives. ⁣👫👭👬👨‍👩‍👧‍👧👨‍👦👩‍👦👨‍👧👩‍👧👨‍👩‍👧👩‍👩‍👧 (etc.) ⁣ Typically, we see more interpersonal difficulties with anything other than secure attachment. You may also come across the term “attachment-rupture,” which indicates a break in an attachment relationship. Talk to your therapist about the experiences you had with attachment figures in your life. This can be a significant puzzle piece 🧩 when navigating the WHYs behind our behaviors & emotions.
June 26 2019 - By far one of the coolest EVPs we've caught. The SB11 box was working fine but you can hear the recorder flatline for a few seconds. When sound returns you hear a person humming and a woman say "stop it". #paranormal #ghosthunting #ghosts #ghostvideos #hauntedhouse #haunted #hauntings #Supernatural #paranormalinvestigation #GhostAdventures #evp #spiritvoices #strange #afterlife #paranormalinvestigations #voices #SLS #Kinect #attachment #video #spiritstalker
Remember that what is regulating or soothing for you may be different for someone else. This same is true for attachment needs. For people who have a lot of anxiety and fear around separation they may need constant reinforcement that you will come back. The separation may cause you to feel dysregulated. For others they need they need space and time alone in order to recharge and feel regulated. So communicating what your needs are and finding ways to meet in the middle so you both feel connected is important. #attachment #attachmentwounds #disruptedattachment #insecureattachment #secureattachment #parentchildbond #bonding #connection #childdevelopment #healingattachmentwounds #attachmentfoundation #parenting #parentingtips #relationships #healthyrelationsips #survivorsguidetolife #jlangtherapy
How to help kids find a comfort object so they can go back to sleep without mom. @abbybengtzen Oh my, sleep is a big deal!! Thanks for the great question. Remind yourself, this will take time. As the child gets older you won’t feel as sleep deprived! ✨Kids will get attached to something you use a lot with them. For example, I always had a cloth diaper over my shoulder when my youngest daughter was an infant. Because of this, she became attached to cloth diapers. Which was awesome because we could lose one and it didn’t matter. Stay tuned for more tips tomorrow!
So true! Our kiddos - especially those who have experience trauma - need us to remain calm and guide them to safety. Our kiddos are more important than the mess. #attachment #hopeforhealing #developmentaltrauma #specialneedsparent #developmentaltraumadisorder #reactiveattachmentdisorder #adoption #fostercare #attachmentparenting
‪The topic of children’s mental health and well-being is one I take seriously, so it goes without saying that I was very pleased to be able to contribute to this excellent piece @10dailyau Great article @valentinatodoroska raising awareness for parents and for society as a whole - https://10daily.com.au/lifestyle/health/a190626vpigb/expert-issues-warning-over-viral-videos-of-parents-punching-kids-toys-to-get-them-to-eat-20190627 ‬ #attachment #singleparent #singleparents #parent #parents #parenting #separation #divorce #family #mum #dad #children #kids #healthandwellness #dv #domesticviolence #familyviolence #eatingdisorder #mentalhealth #mentalillness #depression #anxiety #anxious #support #counselling #therapy #counsellor #counselling #10dailyau #10daily
Bite sized desserts were amazing and we loved showing off our new space to our community! Thanks to all who supported our open house tonight. #wildrootstherapy #occupationaltherapy #wildrootsisgrowing #traumafocusedpractice #autism #sensoryprocessingdisorder #specialneedskids #regulation #attachment #bigskywomen #femaleentrepreneur
1960: Debuting in yet another advert in 1960, the #JCB 4 demonstrates its excellent excavating capabilities, which were unprecedented at the time. . #JCBLovers #EasyinaHardWorld #CompletingtheSolution #Excavator #Attachment #Construction #HeavyEquipment #heavyequipmentlife #heavyequipmentoperator
Do you find yourself having difficult emotions and painful relationships? Find out how to get unstuck and build lifegiving and rejuvenating relationships! ❤️ #therapy #couples #brainspotting #enneagram #emdr #sanjosetherapist #attachment #highlysensitiveperson #HSP #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram4 #enneagram9
The objects of my attachment, aversion and Ignorance - Friends, enemies, strangers - and my body, wealth, and enjoyments; Without any sense of loss I offer this collection. Please accept it with pleasure and bless me with freedom from the three poisons. ♥️ 🙏🏽 ♥️ #Mandala #Offering #Prayer #Request #Kind #Compassionate #Loving #Lama #Bless #Freedom #From #Attachment #Aversion #Ignorance #❤️
Real Yoga is a lived philosophy and set of practices designed to diminish the ego-self and our attachment to superficiality.🏆 Let's get real together. See you in the sanctuary! #realyoga #reallife #getreal #truth #truenature #yogaiswithin #philosophy #spirituality #ego #attachment #supernotsuperficial #yogalife #yogalifestyle #eastbayyoga #elcerrito #wholenessandwellness #seeyouinthesanctuary #ojasisdeepwellness
When we are children our most vulnerable relationship is the one we have with our parents/caregivers. We are wholly dependent on them to meet our needs~~ for food, shelter, clothing, safety, and love. And how those big people meet our basic needs for love and security becomes a template inside of us. And then we grow up. And we fall in love. Falling in love reawakens vulnerability that parallels the vulnerability we experienced as children in relation to our caregivers. This is unavoidable. Yes, our bodies and brains are bigger and stronger, but our need for love remains the same. Let's be clear. This isn't pathological. This is human. If what we received from our caregivers was inadequate, unpredictable, or hurtful, we may be very afraid to take the risk of being hurt like that ever again. Falling in love is truly an act of courage. But here's the thing. It can be different now. Even as the wounded child within us is afraid to let someone get close, our adult self can take the lead. Our adult self can manage boundaries in ways a child cannot. Our adult self can ask for what we need in ways a child cannot. Our adult self can take responsibility for our thoughts and feelings and behavior in ways a child cannot. It can be different now. But in order for our adult self to take the lead in love, in order to love bravely, we must first acknowledge the child that lives within each of us. We must listen to that child's fear and anger, offering our comfort and reassurance. "I feel you, little one. I know you're scared. You're here with me and you are safe." As we are able to do that, romantic love becomes the most powerful vehicle for healing that we will ever know. When we can parent ourselves from within, we can connect deeply with our beloved. And we create a relationship of recovery. Intimate connection heals the past. #lovingbravely
So many people continue to suffer debilitating trauma, over and over - even years after a toxic relationship ends.⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ The mistake made is that they will physically seperate from the toxic or narcissistic relationship and will then begin to try and rebuild their life without first releasing the trauma. It’s effectively like a ticking time bomb waiting to go off.⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ The trauma could be a decade old yet if something happens that feel similar boom! The original trauma kicks in all over again and again and again until it’s released. ⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ A similar event 10 years later can easily bring you to your knees and completely derail you. The same chemicals will flood your body and your poor body thinks it’s being abused all over again. ⠀⠀⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ When we make a choice not to have the trauma released - we’re effectively signing up for a life time of being stuck in a cycle of abuse - with ourselves. I say ourselves, because the trauma is within us, and all it takes to kick everything off again is a thought or a memory then bam, knock to our knees all over again.⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ The truth is that ending a relationship and going no contact and reflecting upon the relationship and where it may of went wrong will not release the trauma. Nor will intellectualising it or reading about it or talking to a talk therapist. In fact - no amount of talking will release the trauma.⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ The trauma or past hurts must be dissolved directly within the subconscious mind - most approaches use our conscious or thinking mind which will not affect the original trauma - it will simply allow you to manage it at best.⠀⠀⠀⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ I use an energetic approach within my practice and the results are significant and swift. What once triggered you loses it’s power and you can step out of debilitating patterns with ease.⠀⠀⠀ 💫⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you’d like to begin dissolving past trauma feel free to DM me, or hop onto my bookings page (link in bio) and lets get you out of those painful cycles.⠀ ⠀ Much love, Jen xx⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #attachment #trauma #relationships #awakening #spirituality #soulmate #soul #twinflame #love #trauma #innerchild #hypnotherapy #influencer #meditation #yoga #shadowwork
Descripcion grafica de los grandes beneficios de la Lactancia Materna😍 es simplemente alucinante como podemos conectarnos tanto en un acto tan hermoso como es la Lactancia, la creacion de Dios es perfecta💙 bellisima imagen de @sian_breastfeedingpractitioner 💙 💜 💜 Repost from @sian_breastfeedingpractitioner using @RepostRegramApp - Breastfeeding is about so much more than food. So much so, that I often wish we could rename it! Breastnurturing seems a fitting term. Many mothers I meet become quite consumed with how much their baby is ‘feeding’. Worrying that they can’t have enough milk, that their baby is taking too much milk, their baby is ‘just feeding for comfort’ or making ‘bad’ sleep associations. The truth is that your baby will go to your breast for countless reasons. Milk is just one of them. Breastfeeding to comfort your baby, promote sleep and to connect are all important and normal reasons for your baby to be at your breast, along with meeting their requirements for milk. As a mother breastfeeds, it really does look something like this. Those amazing hormones that flood her brain also impact on the brain of her baby, enhancing and nurturing the bond between mother and child. Nutrition, Bonding, Immunity, Attachment, Safety, Responsive, Nurturing, Love. 💗🤱🏼. . . . . #breastfeeding #breastfeedingsupport #breastfeedingmum #breastmilk #breastfeedingproblems #postnatal #postpartum #newmum #newborn #latch #breastfeedingcafe #mothering #normalizebreastfeeding #peersupport #volunteer #mothertomother #nutrition #bonding #immunity #attachment #safety #responsive #love
Big behaviors can be a major fear for those considering foster care. And they are what make many foster parents get that "in the trenches" feeling themselves. We've all seen people post about the tantrums, the broken glass, the screaming for hours. I understand your concern. I've LIVED your concern! But there is hope. And there is information to feel empowered even in those hard hard moments. These kids need us to remain calm while they are struggling. And that's what those behaviors are, a struggle. They don't like to feel like that either. In our 7 week online masterclass we will work on tools to help you stay regulated in the chaos and tools for helping you to meet the needs of your kids and help them to regulate as well. Register today before all the seats are gone!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ . #fostercareadoption #thisisadoption #thisisfostercare #fostercareis #fosteradopt #thisisourjourney #traumainformed #fostercare #fostermom #fosterlove #respite #fosterparenting #fosterfamily #fosterlife #adoption #fosterparents #shefosters #parenting #gettooattached #joyfulmamas #lovemakesafamily #momlife #fosteringlove #fostercarelife #fosterparentlife #fosteringteens #normalizefostering #lgbtqfostering #attachment
Is there anything more #photoworthy than a farmer’s market + a little girl? 👩🏼‍🌾👧🏼 We have been snacking on fruit for 24 hours now and cannot wait to get into the most gorgeous cauliflower you ever saw 🌿
пойми, ⠀ я не хочу тебя менять, не хочу, чтобы ты менялся ради меня. я хочу, чтобы ты был рядом и успокаивал, когда мне страшно, прижимал к себе, когда я буду необходима тебе, хоть даже и в час ночи. ⠀ пойми, ⠀ я вижу каждый твой шаг и даже ловлю все твои мысли, хоть они и не в мою сторону. я не хочу быть твоей клеткой, но быть для тебя свободой, все равно, что быть флагом, развевающимся на ветру среди тысячи других кораблей. ⠀ пойми, ⠀ я не просто девочка с приятной внешностью может быть, с глупыми мыслями и наверное с частыми мелкими обидами. я девочка, которая хочет быть с тобой ⠀ письмо одинокому чувству в сети посвящается.
And may you recognize your growth and hard work in the midst of that transformation. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It can be freaking hard to see the forest through the trees!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I don't want you to lose hope or feel like nothing is working out for you. My clients often communicate to me that they feel this way. Meanwhile, I'm baffled because I can clearly see the change in their lives and their mental health and their relationships. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So, I hold a mirror up for them and show them what I see. Do you have someone in your life who can hold a mirror up for you? Please go to them if you are feeling like you're walking through mud. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ . ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #unconditionallove #positiveregard #unconditionalpositiveregard #trust #intimacy #relationship #therapeutic #therapeuticrelationship #attachment #attachmenttheory #secureattachment #security #love #reparative #reparativeexperience #experiential #anxiousattachment #anxiety #healing #heal #learntotrust #confidentiality #confidential #safe #secretsafewithme #transformation #psychotherapy #therapy #therapist #tellyourtherapist
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#Repost @_mombojombo_ ・・・ We learn to cope with not being liked by learning how to fit in + people please. We hate the idea of someone not approving of us so we bend + morph ourselves into a lesser version of who we are in hopes that it will gain the respect + acceptance of others. Here we also learn to tolerate the crumbs, because we believe it’s all we deserve, and stay quiet out of fear because losing a relationship is a burden we simply cannot carry. _______ Likewise, we play small because we fear failing. If we don’t ever reach far, dream big or go for it, than we are safe. We feel cozy and in control this way, as taking a chance + falling face first would cause too much pain. Again, a burden we cannot carry. ______ But we are learning another way, a better way. One that reveals our true self. One that lights the path towards speaking up for ourselves, sharing our inner needs, and walking away from people + places that no longer align with who we are becoming. Fitting in no longer matters as much as stepping into ourselves does. We don’t strive for perfection, but work to accept the process + others as is. The discomfort of change isn’t as scary as we once feared, nor is playing big; as we now welcome the opportunity and embrace it as a chance to show up for who we really are... fall on our face if we must. We realize now failing isn’t a burden, but a necessity. And the beauty is we have slowly learned to get up laughing, wiping away a few years maybe + begin again. 💫 ______ #jswellness #growth #fail #acceptance #letgo #peoplepleasing #attachment #playingsmall #tolerance #toleration #discomfortzone #fear #anxiety #becoming #fittingin #healingmom #copingskills #process #control #cozy
I have this weird rule that I (mostly) follow in my life to help me stay unattached to material possessions! . And it's this. If something I "own" makes someone else truly happier than it makes me. I give it to them. I know it sounds weird, but stick with me here. . The other night I traded shirts with this dude who said he wanted my shirt 3 or 4 times during my sets. And at the end I asked "Are you really serious" and he 💯 was 😂 . So we traded shirts and he lit up like a Christmas tree, and so did I. . I have had that shirt for almost 8 years, and I have had a lot of brilliant memories in it. But at the end of the day. No one really owns anything, we are just taking care of it until it finds its next home. . This rule helps me differentiate "possession" from "ownership" To want possession of something comes from a place that won't ever really be fulfilling. But to take ownership of something means to really care for it, and have value. . That's my perspective anyways 😂. Do you have any weird rules that help you keep your values in check? . Let me know!! Love you, ☮️🔥❤️☀️ #attachment #materialistic #possession #value #fulfillment #ownership #selfwork #originalsongs #newsong #original #originalmusic #singing #sing #singer #singers #singersongwriter #guitar #guitaroriginal #acousticguitar #acoustic #acousticoriginal #musiclovers #music #musicians #musician #vocals #vocal #vocalist
Check out my stories today for some practical ways to take care of yourself this summer. Pick one that you can try this week 🌱 Take care of you so you can take care of them. You need to be strong not just today, but next month and next year as well 😎 . . . #attachment #attachmentparenting #adoptionjourney #adoptionishard #adoptionrocks #adoptionislove #bloggermom #fostercare #fostering #fathers #fatherhoodrocks #fosterlove #honestlymothering #inbeautyandchaos #lovemakesafamily #momofteens #momproblems #mumblogger #mybeautifulmess #parentcoach #parentingblogger #selfcare #thecalltolove #thisisfostercare #thisismotherhood #unitedmotherhood #momcommunity #wecouldhavemissedthis
We don’t have to feel stuck in our current family cycle or the cycle of our grandparents and parents before them. We can educate ourselves on different ways to manage struggles, say yes to support sources for mental health and community connection and fight hard for self-accountability amidst interacting with others. Choosing new routes and solving problems differently can and will begin the repair. All of these efforts can begin to sift through the heavy impacts had on you by previous generations. These actions are self-care. . Maybe you often did the care-taking for others or a family member growing up because it seemed no one else was taking care of them. Maybe you even took care of yourself at a very young age. And an adult you find that care-taking includes caring for others before caring for yourself. Allowing yourself to accept self-love and considering yourself a priority as well IS self-care. . If you were taught that your feelings didn’t matter or were unacceptable, you may have felt like your opinions, needs and desires were nit of value. This can steal our sensibilities toward expression, our ability to be vulnerable or to see the value in being vulnerable. A lot of times the effects can also encourage us to push feelings aside and act as though we don’t need help, emotion or connection. Training ourselves to embrace the value of expressing or asserting our needs and wants IS self-care! 🌱
RELEASE 🐻 Feeling & expressing emotions is important for wellness. Engage in activities where it’s possible to move & express. Perhaps bike riding, surfing, martial arts, dancing or drama. Emma loves her football. • #bodymindspirit #inspiration #sensoryintegration #occupationaltherapy #adventuretherapy #wellness #skillsforlife #connect #traumainformed #attachment #calming #paediatrics #activekids #playtolearn #emotionalregulation #exploretolearn #adventure #health #wildandfree #borntostandout #parentsupport #disabilitysupport #autismsupport #australia #makeachange #feel #express #exploretolearn #roughandtumble
Emotional neglect and even emotional mis-attunement has a lifelong impact on us but it can be difficult to identify. It's far easier to work with the black and white issues because we can clearly point to the wrong doing. It is the areas of grey and the ambiguous nature of humanity that see us turning the blame within when the origin lies elsewhere.⁠ .⁠ .⁠ When we consciously recognise the challenges facing our care givers we can understand why they may not have been able to meet our emotional needs but still the ache sits in our heart, unsatisfied, yearning. It colors the way we show up in the world, the quality of our relationships and the connection we have to ourselves.⁠ .⁠ .⁠ Sometimes abusers will deliberately play in the grey areas, using obscurity to cloak their cruel intentions. Playing on the fact, that due to their status or strategic positioning, their victims remain unheard and unbelieved until the path of destruction left behind catches up.⁠ .⁠ .⁠ But more often than not the fissures in our psycho-emotional development occur within the confines of caring homes. Sometimes the everyday challenges take over, sick kids or parents, mental health issues or special needs, cultural or familial patterns inherited and not yet challenged, divorce, death, injury and even work pressures all influence how the family unit integrates and sustains each member. . . Challenge certainly builds resilience but only when we can feel soothed after the slight, understand the unconscious or unspoken elements at play and experience reconnection after the fracturing. Every misattuned moment holds an opportunity for repair and reconnection. When we can do this with our kids in the moment we armour them with strength, insight and understanding. Sometimes as adults we need to honor the misattunement so that we can come out of the constraints of our childhood. . . Healing these missed moments at any age paves the way for comprehension, cohesion and coregulation. In the ebb and flow of life these moments increase our capacity for greater intimacy and harmony and ultimately teach us how to thrive no matter what. ⁠ ⁠
A wonderful session covering back massage with lovely pictures demonstrating the flexibility of our sessions... Today one of the Little Angels hadn't slept so just wanted to be up with mummy, mummy did an amazing job going through the back massage strokes while up & comforting her Little Angel. One of the other Little Angels hadn't been very well so had fallen asleep on the way to the session, we let her sleep & mummy practiced the strokes on a doll. In our sessions Baby's needs always come first, they are in charge 💗 #BabyMassage #BabyMassageYarm #InfantMassage #BabyYoga #Mummy #Baby #Bonding #Oxytocin #Attachment #Relax #LittleAngelsYoga #Love #Connect #MumAndBaby #Touch #Nurture #BabyMassageRocks #Yarm #Eaglescliffe #Thornaby #RiverbankChildrensCentre
Last one... and also... we have something BIG to share with you guys... maybe tomorrow...... 🤫
I can’t get enough of these pictures so I decided I am making a whole row of her in this precious little wintery outfit 🙊. Oops. My sleepy little cherub.
So 😢 Sad (one of our cars wasn’t worth fixing and my daughter Mercedes wasn’t happy 😞 it was her favorite vehicle 🚗) #attachment #whyme #dontgo #why #sosad #sadie #hardlettinggo
#GIFTED I am SO excited to be representing the #doitlikeamother gang at @tribalheartsfestival in August. "Now in it’s third year, Tribal Hearts combines many elements of natural living with family life, aiming to support parents in raising a healthy, happy tribe! Like every good festival we have great live music, delicious food, camping and plenty of fun, but with the added benefit of being able to take something away of value to you and your children. With an emphasis on creativity, play and nature children are immersed in opportunities to explore and learn, express themselves and gain confidence whilst supporting all areas of development. Workshops include parenting support to enhance your relationships with your children and create peaceful homes and interactive sessions on healthy and environmentally friendly lifestyle choices." Doesn't that all sound fab? Tickets are available NOW at http://tribalheartsfestival.co.uk/ 🤩 . . . . . . . . . #familyfestival #doitlikeamotherhood #brilliantbabywearingbusiness #babywearingeducator #doitlikeamotheronholiday #parentingsupport #attachmentparenting #attachment #responsiveparenting #community #findyourvillage #ittakesavillage #kidsfestival #festivalfun #naturalparenting #gentleparenting #nojudgement #nojudgementparenting
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#मुसाफिर #love #tradition #attachment #enjoylife #marathistatus #mumbai #maharashtra #marathibana #marathimovie #poetrycommunity #instawriter #writersofinstagram #writersofig #writersofindia #igwriter #igwritersclub #imtiazali #faizahmedfaiz #javedakhtar #javedakhtarpoetry #gulzaar #drama #Aliwritup #mumbaikar #word #youth #love #life #Aliwritup #bachapankedost #local जब उसे अपना पता ना चला... वो खुद को ढूंढ रहा था... पता नहीं उसे इस बात की... इस सफर में न जाने वो कहा था... उसकी आँखों ने किसी माथे पर टिका देखा... हाथ मे कमंडल और माला लिए मसीहा देखा... मसीहा जपते रहे ईमान से अपनी पहचान... उन्हें दे रहे थे सब हाथ जोडकर सन्मान... पास जाकर मुसाफिर ने अपना तकदीर बताया... "मेरी पहचान क्या हैं" इस बात पर फिक्र जताया... मसीहा हसते हसते कहते गए... "जैसा मेरा शरीर हैं वैसे तेरा शरीर हैं... अंतरंग तो बेरंग हो कर अमिर हैं... पहचान की तस्वीर एक जंजीर हैं... हवाओं की आत्मा, मिट्टी का जमिर हैं..." बातें सुनकर, वो सुलझाने लगा अपने आप को... "कोन हूंँ में" इस उलझते नकाब को.... जब उसे अपना पता ना चला... वो खुद को ढूंढ रहा था... पता नहीं उसे इस बात की... इस सफर में न जाने वो कहा था... उसकी आँखों ने किसी माथे पर टोपी देखी... दाढी, तसबीर और कुर्ते में जनाब की नेकी देखी.... जनाब कह रहे थे खुदा से दुआ मे यहीं... दुनिया में बस सुकून फर्मा और कुछ नहीं... उन्हें जाकर मुसाफिर ने अपना तकदीर बताया... "मेरी पहचान क्या हैं" इस बात पर फिक्र जताया... जनाब हसते हसते कहते गये... "जैसी मेरी जबान हैं वैसी तेरी जबान हैं... जी गये लब्ज लेकर जब तलक जान हैं... फरक करना एक बिमारी हैं... भुक हैं मांँ, कुछ सांसों की उधारी है..." बातें सुनकर, वो सुलझाने लगा आप को... "कोन हूंँ में" इस उलझते नकाब को.... जब उसे अपना पता ना चला... वो खुद को ढूंढ रहा था... पता नहीं उसे इस बात की... इस सफर में न जाने वो कहा था... उसी आंखों ने अब आईना देखा... अपने जैसा कोई इन्सा का रूखसार देखा... इतना हसिन था, जिसे खुद पर यकीन था... समझ आ गयीं थी एक मिसाल... जान से बढ़कर किसी को ना सभाल... समंदर सा गहरा हर एक का मन हैं.... लहरों की तरह दे रहा सोच को जनम हैं... फेसलों का जहाज उस किनारे ले आते हैं... नई मंजिल की खोज में मुसाफिर... खुदी को अजनबी कह लाते हैं... फिर क्या... जब उसे अपना पता ना चला... वो खुद को ढूंढ रहा था... पता नहीं उसे इस बात की... इस सफर में न जाने वो कहा था... ©रहिस अली सय्यद..
‘It is this internal world, with its complex relationships, that is the raw material on which the artist draws for creating a new world in his art’ ( Segal 1975) #attachment #container #potentialspace #boundaries #arttherapywithchildren #arttherapyinschools #connections #fragile #womb #motherchild #infant
Koliko često sebi i drugima dajete priznanje i govorite im koliko su sjajni? 😇 Predstavljamo vam rad majke i ćerke kojima bismo dodali barem još tri osobine: sjajne, tople i jedinstvene 😊 #pricaovili #terapijaigrom #podrskaroditeljstvu #greatnesssticks #attachment #sandtray
Currently approaching my readiness for practice interview (on Monday) and I am feeling so unbelievably out of my depth. I'm trying to cram as much info in as possible, ready for what they may talk about, however I am still feeling incredibly nervous. It only felt like yesterday I started first year! Any tips or advice are very much appreciated ❤️