“I tried so hard my dear to show that you're my every dream. / Yet you're afraid each thing I do is just some evil scheme” … where’s the trust?
The song “Cold, Cold Heart” by Country music legend Hank Williams tells the tragic tale of a troubled relationship. While the two people love each other, the relationship is fraught with pain and sorrow because, as Hank sees it, his lover is distrustful from having been burned in a previous romance. The opening verse, below, tells the story.
“I tried so hard my dear to show that you're my every dream.
Yet you're afraid each thing I do is just some evil scheme
A memory from your lonesome past keeps us so far apart
Why can't I free your doubtful mind and melt your cold cold heart”
The existence of trust, or lack thereof, will define both the nature and quality of a relationship. When most people commit to a relationship, whether it be intimate, friendship, or business, they want to know that the other person will be there in times of need. Not being sure breeds an insecurity that can doom the relationship. What makes this a bit more challenging is that both people must be willing and able partners, and unfortunately not everyone is trustworthy, while others find it difficult to be trusting. When you meet someone new, it would be helpful to know if either is the case before getting too involved. But, how can you tell? Character Radar can teach you which clues to look for, and hopefully save you from the heartache and pain so many, such as Hank, experience.
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