There has rarely been an enemy in my life that I didn't help create.
I've created a few enemies over the last few years. 100% my doing. Bad decisions. Sin-driven decision. Those decisions hurt people, badly.
However, I made amends to the best of my ability. I owned my sin and mistakes.
And here is what one figures out: Repentance & apology are never enough, especially when someone is determined to make you pay.
Friends hear me: If you have wronged or sinned against someone, please make it right to the best of your ability. They may receive it or not. That's not up to you. But the decision to do your part is solely on you.
Once you have done that, move on.
For most enemies, the only way they will be happy is for you to completely disappear from their lives.
Now, it becomes about their heart and actions. Their character is now revealed in the process.
Pray for their healing. Seriously, pray for your enemies. This is the way of the Jesus.
More to come on this subject, soon.