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I said to my therapist after explaining the ordeal I had last Monday, ‘I’m well used to it’. NOBODY should learn to be well used to any of this kind of behaviour. It is not right. And calling myself a feminist is NOT an attack on men. It’s an attack on the behaviour that some of us have to put up with. It is an attack by saying ‘no more’. It is an attack on a toxic masculinity culture that is not right and most certainly not safe. It is NEVER your fault, no matter how you are dressed, leading someone on, behaving, looking, speaking, drinking... The list goes on. But I am a feminist because I stand against this kind of behaviour. #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #toxicmasculinity #mysoginyisreal #downwiththepatriarchy #breakglassceilings #womenhelpingwomen #empoweryourself #nomore
Some #ToxicMasculinity #Undertones and #Superfactz for yo bitch ass (swipe) ----- You can only fix things that you're aware of ----- #DontWait when it comes to #Introspection and checking urself fellas ----- #LearnStuff #Evolve and #CheckYourself #OutHere #GetActive #SocialWorkLife
Reposted from @masculinity_mastered (@get_regrann) - #positivemasculinity⠀ .⠀ .⠀ Positive people are capable of finding the good in every situation. It’s easy to become overwhelmed by the bad, but by identifying silver linings when they appear, you’ll gradually cultivate a positive and abundant mindset. Imagine what you could accomplish with that kind of attitude.⠀ . ⠀ #masculinity #alpha #workout #fit #love #menscoach #lifecoach #newalpha #pep #tribe #health #youtube #life #podcast #healthy #muscle #masculinitymastered #gymlife #jordanpeterson #alpha #explorepage #success #photooftheday #mgtow #goals #quotes #toxicmasculinity #entrepreneur
If I tear my heart open for you, will you help me stitch it back together? If I go into the wounds, will you be a wolf with me by sticking around and licking them better? If I underdress in front of you, will you wrap a blanket around me and make sure I get warm again? What I'm saying to you is, if you want me to be vulnerable with you, I need aftercare. I've been feeling into the demand for us men to show more emotion. Slowly moving into my untamed vulnerability, sharing my absolute raw truth and allowing new parts of myself to be witnessed. Yet something was still off. I was still getting whiplash. The solution: asking for aftercare. That's the most vulnerable shit ever IMO. "Can you please check in on me tomorrow and see if I'm okay?" My conditioning says that's only for girls… only women ask for that! As a man, I've always felt an honourable responsibility to hold space for women when called upon. Offering my masculine to be the anchor of stability for the feminine's wild ocean of vulnerability. Witnessing women in their naked truth, their softening and the aftercare it takes to remain there. Well, it's time for us men to be okay with requesting the same thing. It's okay for this to be a need. It's okay that this is my need. If you want me to go into the misty unknown with you, I need you to check in on me afterwards and see if I'm okay navigating these new territories. . . 📷 : @beashotthis . . #masculinity #healthymasculinity #toxicmasculinity #boundaries
Make a start! Over 2 years ago i started writing this film. I was fascinated how difficult it was for men to talk to each other and help each other. Somehow, somewhere men helping men deal with problems got lost. I thought this was a pitty, as i have experienced lots of times how valuable that was to me. So, if there was any bigger reason to make this film, then it was to get that message across, that men benefit from talking to men. I still hear (mostly from men) what the fuss is all about. "A man is supposed to deal with shit by himself". I would not be against a world with strong and healthy men, who have no problems, or can solve all problems by themselves, but reality looks like this: *Men are 4 times more likely than women to be murdered and 10 times more likely to commit murder. *Men are nearly 3 times more likely than women to abuse alcohol. *Boys are approximately 3 times more likely to be diagnosed with attention deficit disorder than girls are. *Boys are 4 times more likely than girls to drop out of school. *75% of all suicides are committed by men. *10% of men work more than 60 hours per week. . . . . . . . . . #makeastart #menneedmen #masculinity #menscircle #selfhelpgroup #mentorship #mentalhealthrecovery #menstuff #menwatch #menshealth #mens #mengo #mentalhealth #men #toxicmasculinity #healthymasculinity
"Zum 50. Geburtstag feiert meine Mutter ein großes Fest. Viele ihrer Freunde und Freundinnen kenne ich schon seit ich ein Baby bin, ich freue mich auf die Feier. Nach ein paar Stunden lassen etliche Freunde Kommentare fallen wie: „Ah, die Feministin, eh klar!“ „Vor dir darf man ja garnichts mehr sagen!“, wenn ich zu einem Gespräch dazukommen. Ich sage nichts dazu, möchte bei der Feier keine unangenehmen Situationen zulassen und daher keine heiklen Themen provozieren. Später bin ich dann mit einem guten, alten Freund meiner Eltern und meiner Mutter alleine bei der Bar. Er legt seine Hand um meine Hüfte - aus dem Nichts heraus, ich sage kein Wort - und sagt: „Naja, du hast den Mund ja nie halten können, Frau Ober-Emanze!“. Ich drehe mich von ihm weg und sage: „Entweder du hörst jetzt auf oder dieser Abend wird ganz einfach schlecht enden.“ Er lacht und dreht sich zur Bar, die Konversation ist beendet."⁠ ---------------------------------⁠ Schicke uns deine Geschichte über www. oidaitssexism .com⁠ ----------------------------------⁠ #OIDAitssexism #Aufschrei #timesup #fightsexism #everydaysexism #sexismusimalltag #sexisminaction #Sexism #Sexismus #sexists #misogyny #sexismatitsfinest #sexismatitsworst #antisexism #antimisogyny #schweigenbrechen #awareness #equality #equalityforall #equalrights #gleichberechtigung #downwithsexism #notokay #beloud #toxicmasculinity⁠
Vi aspettiamo numeros* al focus group di questo sabato in via bezzecca 3 dalle 16 alle 18! #lgbt #vitainarcigay #milanopride #milano #toxicmasculinity
For the longest time I didn't engage in conversations about feminism because I was naive about the feminist movement. Then when I did my fumbling attempts at support received mixed to negative responses from other feminists. I received comments like 'Hurrah this man has solved it ladies' or 'thank god there's a man who can explain our problems to us 🙄'. It was off putting to say the least. I took sometime to reflect on why I had received the responses I did and I realised that while I had had good intentions I had been looking for solutions; I'd tried to offer advise rather than empathize. The real solution here IS feminism and the biggest affect I can bring about is by engaging with positivity, empathy and reaching out to those perpetuating stereotypes or believing in myths about the movement as well as calling out and challenging toxic masculinity when I see it. I had good intentions. But fuck my good intentions. What is needed is good actions. If you're not already following @iamrachelricketts please do, her account is brilliant! #feminism #intentions #toxicmasculinity #patriarchy #gender
This. When I teach about DV/ Intimate Partner Violence I teach about the contributing factor of gender socialization for (not all, but many) perpetrators. We must, for the good of our boys and men and for the good of society, raise boys to know the range and complexity of their emotions, to be in touch with their emotions, and to have strategies to cope with and verbalize their emotions. The adverse effects of stuffed emotions is real and heavy. Grateful to be raising three boys with the space and support to honor, explore, identify, name, and express the full range of their emotions. Repost @sensitivityproject @wokemamas #raiseemstrongandproud #raiseemwoke #gendersocialization #toxicmasculinity #masculinities #menofcolor #sensitivity
Clementine Ford’s Boys Will Be Boys is an acclaimed call to action against a culture of entitlement, privilege and power. SBS’s Janice Petersen talks to Clementine and writer and chef Adam Liaw about the harm toxic masculinity inflicts on women and men, the progress we’re making to counteract it, and how we can raise our boys to become better men.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Listen to the podcast via the link in our bio, or on iTunes and Spotify. #sydneywriterfestival
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Ep. 23: Fuck it, buy a pink Mercedes (Skrrt)
I made Forbes every year, lil' baby (Top the Forbes)
I don't like no long nails on my lady (Of course)
Is it you that can't reveal that I'm shady?
White toes in her heels, she the latest (Toes)
She got plastic Cartiers, think she made it (She made it) Your Welcome😘 #slapperoftheweek #putmeonpodcast #putmeonpod #pmeo #wegotthebangys #freemusicfridays . . . . . . . . #sandiego #sandiegonative #joebuddenpod #nationalcity #southeastdaygo #daygo #oceanbeachsandiego #toxicmasculinity #missionbeachsandiego #plazabonitamall #sdscpa #joeroganexperience #killtony #tbt #instagram #ayoandteo #yourmomshouse #losangeles_city #newyork #seattle
💪💡 @masculinity_mastered ・・・ #positivemasculinity . . A man should be flexible and reliable at the same time. If necessary he can start all over again at any given moment. Whatever happens; his house was burnt down, his crop failed, he lost his job, his his woman dies : even if he has mourning to do he starts all over again. . . . #masculinity #alpha #workout #fit #love #menscoach #lifecoach #newalpha #pep #tribe #health #youtube #life #podcast #healthy #muscle #masculinitymastered #gymlife #jordanpeterson #alpha #explorepage #success #photooftheday #mgtow #goals #quotes #toxicmasculinity #entrepreneur
#positivemasculinity . . A man should be flexible and reliable at the same time. If necessary he can start all over again at any given moment. Whatever happens; his house was burnt down, his crop failed, he lost his job, his his woman dies : even if he has mourning to do he starts all over again. . . . #masculinity #alpha #workout #fit #love #menscoach #lifecoach #newalpha #pep #tribe #health #youtube #life #podcast #healthy #muscle #masculinitymastered #gymlife #jordanpeterson #alpha #explorepage #success #photooftheday #mgtow #goals #quotes #toxicmasculinity #entrepreneur
The big boys are just getting started. The bugling is going off and they are starting to wrestle around a bit. #wapiti #wildlifeinaction #toxicmasculinity #coloradolife #elksofinstagram
“Man Up”. But society usually can’t define it. #manup #mentalmatterscommunity #blackmensmiling #blackboyjoy
Back with another video and we’re discussing #toxicmasculinity For those who don’t know what it is, what it may look like, or what to do in order to change it, make sure to check out my video (link in bio) This video is about informing rather than attacking. If you know someone who may practice these toxic traits, make sure to share my YouTube video with them. #youtuber #blackcreatives #blackcreators #blackcreative #misogyny #misogynist #sexism #fucksexism #homophobic #homophobia #emotions #mens #mensfashion
Sorry we’re not into toxic masculinity and neither should you be🤷🏽‍♀️ #stickers #femininity #toxicmasculinity
Yesterday @womensmarchsydney launched their new campaign: At What Cost. The following was posted by Women’s March Sydney about the campaign. Recent reporting by KPMG estimates the total cost of violence against women and their children in Australia at $22billion. Of all the states and territories NSW contributed the highest cost at an estimated $6billion per year. And yet we hear from our representatives that we can't afford to allocate the proper funding to address this issue. The At What Cost campaign asks the question of our representatives and our society: #AtWhatCost do we continue to ignore this crisis? We are losing too many lives and seeing far too many other lives destroyed by this insidious problem, and our Government is not taking strong enough action to make real change possible. The campaign urges Australians to join in speaking up in support, by sharing their voice on social media with #AtWhatCost, emailing, phoning, mailing, rallying and demanding that our representatives fully endorse and commit to Safe State NSW : 49 recommendation for policy and law change created by specialists, crisis workers, and social organisations who are at the forefront working with DV and its impacts every day. In NSW we are putting the pressure on all MPs, but especially the NSW Minister for the Prevention of Domestic Violence Mark Speakman @speakman.mark Our website http://womensmarchsydney.com/at-what-cost/ has all the tools you need to contact the minister and tell him that we're not going to accept violence anymore. If you agree with us that this has to end we urge you to join the campaign and ask #AtWhatCost do we ignore the issue of Domestic Violence in New South Wales? #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticabusesurvivor #toxicmasculinity #patriarchy #maleentilement #emotionalabuse #financialabuse #stopdomesticviolence #stopdomesticabuse #maleperpetrator #markspeakman #domesticviolenceprevention #domesticabuseprevention #coercivecontrol #coercivecontrolsurvivor #coercivecontrollingbehaviour
Took the words right out of my mouth! I tell my daughter this all of the time... Never let anyone convince you that they were just upset, intoxicated, or "having locker room talk" - the truth comes out in anger, inebriation, and in positions of perceived power. . . #femaleempowerment #feminism #socialjustice #lgbtq #transgender #trans #lovewins #loveislove #bisexual #lesbian #asexual #pansexual #bhfyp #nonbinary #queer #genderqueer #pride #ftm #agender #genderfluid #blacklivesmatter #independentwoman #psychology #speakupforthevoiceless #equalityforall #womensrights #toxicmasculinity #smashpatriarchy
I coach football and this is a saying we often use. However, the players don’t realize this is needs to be a lifetime mentality, not just game time. How you respond to adversity matters. Life will punch you but what you do makes the difference. Do you feel sorry for yourself or do you get up and push forward? You have a choice. What is it? #thetoxicman #toxicmasculinity #toxic #masculine #masculinity #lawenforcement #policeofficer #police #officer #deputysheriff #sheriffdeputy #military #alpha #firefighters #theartofmanliness #liftingweights #weightlifter #pewpewpew #thepewpewlife #conservative #republican #republicans #maga #ar15 #guns #lift #sheepdog #thinblueline #redpill #gymshark
GATHER ROUND KIDS FOR A FUN QUIZ!! Are you supporting an abuser??? From pages 37 + 38 of this first issue! Thank you to everyone who came out and supported the zine last night, we’re beyond excited to start thinking about the next issue and will announce the theme in the next coming weeks. We will be taking submissions, but in the meantime, we’re working on getting our website up so we can sell these remaining bad boys online and registering ourselves as a non-profit! Neither of these things would be possible without the support of you amazing e* and irl friends 💓We cannot wait to share more of your art with the internet and world because, why not you? . . . #artoftheday #oneofthem #zine #artistoninstagram #metoo #artactivism #abuse #emotionalabuse #blackart #satiregram #satire #toxicmasculinity #graphicdesign #quiz #artmagazine
I’ve been a life coach for 3 years. My clientele has been primarily young men ages 10-13. This is a crucial time for boys to start taking ownership of their life and choose who they want to become. Out of this growing understanding of the needs these young men have, I began dreaming of Unlock Academy. @arongarner and I started talking and found out we both wanted to do something to give our boys tools (we call them keys) to help unlock healthy masculinity and provide a foundation into manhood. These keys are health, communication, confidence, community, adventure, and contribution. If you’re in the Denver area- our first academy is starting in two weeks and REGISTRATION is OPEN. Please help us spread the word to families you think this would benefit. www.unlockmasculinity.com/events
Check out the article: https://arrow-journal.org/why-people-of-color-need-spaces-without-white-people/ • I was told that some people in the save movement near me felt that POC only rules is “exclusionary.” I wasn’t there personally when the conversation was happening but there were poc(not black) who felt that it was exclusionary. I’m 1/3 white and I’ve grown up in a white neighborhood so I’ve never had to seek out a safe space. Please read this article by Kelsey Blackwell and other articles too. • • • • • • • #vegan #veganism #govegan #intersectionalveganism #feminism #toxicmasculinity #veganvoicesofcolor #boricua #ice #mlk #blm #animalrights #animalliberation #humanrights #trump #dumptrump #consistentantioppression #antiracism #humanrights
Proof from Hollywood that women don’t care about your status and your finances. They want you for you. Look at the disappointment Lisa displays when she finds out Akeem is really a prince. She would’ve been happy living in a dangerous neighborhood with a minimum wage worker. Just as long as he was a nice guy #betamalestrategies #chivalry #women #worship #onapedestal #sheissuperior #love #relationship #marriage #gentleman #niceguys #dating #datingadvice #chaseher #scarcitymindset #worshipher #bluepill #2019 #simpin #validation #pussywhipped #toxicmasculinity #masculinity #datingcoach #lifecoach #dancingmonkey #impressher #realman #malefeminist #comingtoamerica
The gun lobby uses pop culture mythos to manipulate and distort the conversation about gun reform. Hear @mayagurantz and @gynostar break down how, in the latest #saucepodcast episode: "Gun Crazy" (listen via bio link or any podcast app). Extra thanks to the members of our Patreon for helping keep our feminist cultural analysis going! ... #podcasts #podcast #podcasting #popculture #popculturepod #popculturepodcast #feministpodcast #feminism #politics #polticalcommentary #politicalpodcast #politicspod #politicalhumor #gunreform #guns #guncontrol #gunreformnow #guns #guncontrolnow #nraisaterroristorganization #fuckthenra #gunculture #toxicmasculinity
Dear friends of @instagram, in one week I will be 36 years old. I’ve not been feeling very excited about my upcoming celebrations... I live in a country with escalating levels of #femicide. Where statistics are stacked against me. Where already #metoo but #aminext. I’m traumatized. Triggered and to be honest, exhausted. Of all of it. The #patriarchy #microaggressions #slutshaming #catcalling #fuckboy #rapeculture #toxicmasculinity that I have to endure on the daily. I don’t want a litutation of a party. I just want to walk freely on the streets. Whenever. Wherever. And without fear. Fancy presents? Nah, I just want YOUR presence on #21september to help me make my birthday wish come true. At 9:30am CAT, stop what you’re doing and please join me in protest in Keizersgracht, Cape Town IRL or online. We’re going to make our government listen but we need all the help we can get. Get woke. Research. Sign petitions. Use your voice and let’s get every city in the world involved in the #marchtoendfemicide. See you there! ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿 #imnotexotic #nomorepatience #womxnuprising #ubuntu #strikeawomanstrikearock #shutdowncapetown #womandla #marchtoendfemicide #southafricanwomen #riseup #southafrica #capetown #september #fightlikeagirl
"grief is personal. it shows up differently for us all. some heal quick. some heal slow. some never recover at all...you are human. and have a right to be the flood, the dam, the anything in-between." -- @adrianmichaelgreen note: this is not in @hewastaughttobethisway. we are intentional to not copy and plug in what you'll read in the book itself. @hewastaughttobethisway. is available for pre-order at bit.ly/amgbooks ✨ link in bio. order your copy right now! books ship mid october and come signed by the author. #hwttbtw #hewastaughttobethisway #adrianmichael #masculinity #poetry #prose #quotes #toxicmasculinity #newbook #lovaste #preorder #love #relationships #conversation #betterman #bettermen #betterment #communication #loss #sadness #sad #grief #healing
I’ve been analysing the first 100 submissions to our page. After talking so many people about their experiences, I have started to notice patterns/ trends in attitudes and behaviour. There is not a lot of data out there that looks in depth at people’s experiences, and I feel all people and all experiences deserve to be taken into consideration when understanding societal issues such as toxic masculinity, sexual harassment/ abuse/ assault, rape, and discrimination; not just experiences that do nothing more than show prevalence. I want to prove patterns in behaviour to help target intervention, because it is clear to me that change can only come around through understanding. Who is crossing people’s boundaries? How do they know their victims? What triggered their behaviour? What more complex issues were at play? And so on. Without the answers to these questions, targeted intervention is impossible. Most importantly, I want to prove people are not alone in their experiences ❤️❤️❤️ - #encounterswithmen #mhblogger #metoo #metoomovement #metoomvmt #nomeansno #noconsent #consent #onlyyesmeansyes #smashthepatriarchy #fightthepatriarchy #feminist #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #intersectionalfeminist #respectwomen #toxicmasculinity #thefutureisequal #stopharassment #stopstreetharassment #stopsexualharassment #endharassment #endsexualharassment #endabuse #endsexualabuse #stoprape #endrapeculture #stoprapeculture #recovery #selflove
Can we, please? 🌸This is a bit of a preachy post but I gotta say it. Detoxifying masculinity is not about demonizing men or male characteristics; it's about allowing men to be their most authentic human selves without being shamed for it. ⁣ .⁣ .⁣ Suppressing emotions, being a 'Real Man,' the idea of emasculation by way of feminine associations, expecting men to be prepared for violence and readily engage in it, seeing sex as a competition and not a genuine human connection, reinforcing the idea that men can never understand women and thus, never truly connect, being sexually aggressive and promiscuous, having a 'boys will be boys' mentality, laughing off male victims of sexual assault–all of these have been linked to psychological problems in men like depression, addiction, stress, anxiety, substance abuse, anger management, and repression around sexual orientation and gender identity. I'm sure we all know a man in our life who is going through these issues. The patriarchy can hurt men, too. Society needs a detox. 💞⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #feministapparel #smashthepatriarchy #feminismisforeverybody #mensissues #toxicmasculinity #detoxify #feministshirt #feminism #feministmovement #intersectionalfeminism #endmisogyny #endsexualviolence #sexuality #genderequality #mensshirts #anxietyanddepression #genderidentity #sexualorientation #endhomophobia #emotion #feminine #masculinity #mentalhealth #mensmentalhealth #addiction #substanceabuse
dead boys. inspired by @sam_fender from may 2019 #deadboys #toxicmasculinity special thanks an die boys
Well you don’t get a beer and a pat on the back for slut shaming your daughter and letting your internalised misogyny cause you to question your love for her ☠️ - #encounterswithmen #toxicmasculinity #fightthepatriarchy #smashthepatriarchy #patriarchy #slutshaming #stopslutshamming #mhblogger #bodypositive #feminist #feminism #equal #equality #thefutureisequal #respectwomen
Toxic masculinity, who? We don’t know him 😌💰
Gender impacts all of us! #Repost @selfcareisforeveryone _ It’s important for us to talk about #selfcare and #mentalhealth in ways that acknowledge and address the systemic and societal ways in which we may find ourselves needing to step back, take a breath, and heal. // The term #toxicmasculinity has been growing in use in the past few years, and we’re so happy it has. We’re finally at a point in time where we can discuss the social pressure that men are faced with, and young boys are indoctrinated with, which leads them to adopt behaviors and traits that don’t allow them to verbally express their emotions, to view #therapy and #vulnerability as weak, and to make up the highest percentage of suicide deaths (by far) worldwide. // It’s so important to include and invite the men in your life into these conversations about self-care, mental health, therapy, and #healing. We hope you’ll take a moment to tag a man or a few of the men in your life on this post below 👇 or share this wonderful image from @laurajaneillustrations 🎨 to your story so that they see it. Much love 💕🙏 #selfcareisforeveryone
Yo Alpha! If you know what you want, type ’I am king’ in the comments. Most dudes try to tell women how they are. This doesn't work. Instead, tell stories about what you’ve done to make her see you how you want to be seen. Not just women either, anyone. Use your actions to drench your image in excellence. Stay Alpha. Follow me for more: @alphaactivation Here are some great accounts on being Alpha you should check out: @activeconfidence @enteringmanhood @the.mens.guide @david_redpill @artofmanliness
NO MORE WAR BETWEEN THE SEXES. We need LOVE & RESPECT. Both genders should have the right to be as masculine and feminine as God made them. Just had to draw on this issue, even if I come off as too conservative--Its what I believe! #WomensMarch #futureisfemale #protestors #art #drawing #politicalcartoon #lovetrumpshate #womensrightsarehumanrights #trans #feminism #machismo #machismokills #toxicpeople #toxicmasculinity